The Balance of God’s Effort and Ours

Yesterday I was sitting on the couch doing some private prayer time with my lovely quilt lying over me. My mother hand-quilted it for me about 10 years ago. She had wanted to make me one, but I didn’t like any of the ones in her books until we came to a book of Amish quilts where there are brighter, block colours rather than the old-fashioned kind of fabric with lots of patterns on.

So she ended up making me one like that, with rainbow kinds of colours which I love; my favourite kind of landscape in the middle with hills, trees, sea and sunset; and Bible verses around the picture.

As I was looking at it today I reflected on the Bible verses that I had chosen to go around it – my favourite four verses. And again it struck me, as it has many times recently, that the Bible is quite clear on there being two sides to our Christian walk and growth. We are told to make effort, but we are also told that we need to depend on God who will help us. And both sides are necessary for us to grasp.

These are the four verses I asked my mum to put around the quilt:

And whatever you do, do heartily, as to the Lord and not to men
Col 3:23

This is something we are commanded to do, to work for God and not for men, and for me it is an inspiring challenge.

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Mat 6:33 

A command that puts the responsibility on us, to seek God first, but with a great promise which means that if we do, God will take care of the rest.

Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Jas 4:8 

Again this is something we are told to do, but if we do this and draw near to God, God also promises to draw near to us.

It is God who arms me with strength, and makes my way perfect.
Psa 18:32 

All those commands are balanced with this comfort – that God will give us strength and make us perfect, even though we won’t get all the way to perfection till heaven! So we can rest in that knowledge.

If it wasn’t for this last one, we could be cast down by the seeming impossibility of the others. But when we know it is God who is behind the scenes transforming us, it is so comforting. And then we also need to remember that God has lots of grace for when we fail.

If we neglect dependence on God, we will get discouraged when we don’t get where we want to, and we can get proud as we rely on our own strength. But if we neglect doing anything ourselves then we will not be going forward very much towards greater holiness, because even though God could do the whole thing by itself, he wants us to take our part.

A balance is needed, where we strive for holiness, but also ask for and depend on God’s help, and realise that God has grace for when we fail.

I think it’s a bit like climbing a ladder – where we are making the effort to climb, but prayer is the ladder put there by God to support and help us get higher, and God’s grace is the cushion at the bottom that helps us get back up again when we fall.

The balance of God’s effort and ours is summed up in these verses:

‘Work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure’ Phil 2:12-13

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7 Responses

  1. Oh, I love everything about this post! Stumbled upon you via somegirlswebsite and am so glad I did.
    The four verses you picked are perfect. All encompassing. Yes, we should strive for holiness and be humbled by grace…
    Thank you!

  2. Anonymous says:

    Thank you Rhoda, for this beautiful post. I found your website through your mother’s Threads and Treasures, and are very grateful that I did, for I am enjoying it and learning a lot from you. And through yóur website I came across other sites as well.
    May the Lord bless you and your familiy!
    Kind regards, Nessie (krimpen a/d ijssel, Netherlands)

  3. Tracy says:

    Hi Rhoda – beautiful blanket. I love the scripture you used on it and I love how you have used them to demonstrate balance. Great post
    God bless
    Tracy

  4. Florence says:

    Hi Rhoda,

    it’s so lovely to have such a beautiful and meaningful gift to embrace and hold on to. When I was going through a periof of deep fear and doubt, I was led to take a t-shirt and write my favourite strengthening and encouragement scriptures on it. It really blessed me.

  5. Rhoda says:

    Thank you for visiting simplystriving 🙂 I love how those verses which were my favourites 10 years ago still are now!

    Nessie, thank you for your comment. I am so glad you are finding the posts and other websites helpful 🙂

    Thanks Tracy – it is beautiful isn’t it 🙂

    Florence I agree it really does help to be able to look back on something that has helped in the past. I should really dig out some of my journals when I’m feeling discouraged for the same reason! That shirt sounds like a really good idea.

  6. Yes, I love the idea that the Christian way often involves keeping two good things in balance–justice and mercy, prayer and work, scripture and prayer. I was just reading up on the Wesleyan quadrilateral. Very interesting!

  7. Liudin says:

    i love this post too much because looks like my condition now. Trusting to God Scenes make me accept unbelieveble trouble arround me. may be God have different way in my life